Lazing around, having sleepless nights, loss of appetite, wanting to be alone, and erratic heartbeats are some symptoms we find when people are in love. And it cannot be explained except for the ones who have experienced it, and yes, it is a different escalated level of happiness people enjoy. When you are in this frame of mind, dreams, imaginations and fantasies go wild. Romantic dreams can go at any length; they can be mushy, cute fantasy, ecstatic, insane, wild or erotic. Many of us take ideas from romantic movies and try to imagine and desire to have these dreams come true. For many, these dreams and fantasies go wild and can be really different from what we see in movies.
“All that I am, all that I see, all that I dream and do are brighter, more beautiful and meaningful, because of my feelings for you.”
What are Romantic Dreams?
Romantic dreams with our partner or whom we like are some of the most common dreams people often experience in their lives.
A romantic dream with your partner can be holding hands and lying next to each other or travelling to the world’s beautiful honeymoon places. Some dreams are innermost desires that we hesitate to discuss with our partners, but can these romantic dreams be true, or can we experience them in reality?
Can We Experience Dreams in Real?
Does this imaginary world of ideas, dreams, and urges really exist? And can we experience the same, or it just remains unsolved or inexperienced? And the answer is right here with us because if these are dreams we desire, can come true if we want them to. We need to make ways to let it happen and enjoy it and make your world of fantasy come alive. We don’t have fairy godmothers, as always read in fairytales, who will make things happen with the swish-swash of the magic wand. We need to do it ourselves. Great then! Get ready, and let’s pen down what we can do to make our secret romantic dreams come true.
How Can I have a Romantic Dream?
1. Make a Wishlist
With your beloved, you plan to have a wonderful time, fun-filled but since all dreams cannot happen in one go, make a wish list of all the different romantic illusions and dreams you have fantasized or imagined. It could be as cynical, simple, silly or insane, but dreams are dreams, fulfil them.
2. Bring Them to Life
As mentioned, it could be in your dreams; you need to bring them out in reality and bring them to life. All of us may not imagine or think the same. It’s a unique feeling only you have and what you desire to share with your beloved, so give them life.
3. Discuss With Your Beloved
It’s the most innermost passionate feeling that you can discuss only with your beloved or partner. And they are not mind readers, so unless you express it, they won’t know, so don’t hesitate, introduce it to them and be open about it to talk to your partner and express the desire to have your imagination come true. In this way, you will also know what they think about it and will they agree with your fantasies.
4. Plan Thoroughly
Discussion and opening up before your partner truly is a big step that helps you taking the leap toward your romantic dreams. It doesn’t matter whether it’s you who is planning the whole thing or your partner; what matters is the end result, seeing your dreams coming out in reality. So, discuss, plan and take action.
5. Make it Happen
You need to give extra effort and make it happen with the help of your beloved; start building the castle of your dreams. Here again, it may just not happen. Trust me; it requires a lot of patience, time, honesty in what you express freely, confidence and strong willpower to fulfil it.
As author Marci Nault writes in her book on – 101 Dreams Come True, “I think many people romanticize about the partners they choose. They have an idea of what their life is going to be like and when the other person doesn’t live up to this fantasy they feel lied to when many times it was their own ideas, not the person who let them down.” It’s true all of us dream, and sometimes we are desperate to let that one dream come true but somehow fail to fulfil it, and the reason can be many; maybe it was the wrong time or wrong person or the wrong place.
Again as we discussed today, making your romantic dreams come true, I leave you with one last thought that I liked what Marci mentioned in her book: If your dream comes with the words, “I will be happy when…” or “I just need this to happen….” then it’s time to look at what romanticized version you’ve created. Reality is always going to be better in the end.
“Life ends when you stop dreaming. Hope ends when you stop believing. Love ends when you stop caring. So, dream, hope and love.”
Also Read: Never allow yourself to get bored; try something new, which can boost your energy. Here are lifestyle changes for women to achieve healthy living goals.